When to send payment reminders and what each one should say
On net 30 terms, remind 3 to 5 days before the due date, again on it, then about 5, 14 and 30 days after, getting shorter and more specific each time. Enter your invoice date below for the exact days.
General information, not legal advice.
Updated 4 November 2026
The short version
Remind early, remind plainly, and count from the due date. On net 30 or longer, a note 3 to 5 days ahead earns its keep, because an invoice nobody has opened yet is the easiest kind to fix. Then one on the day, and follow-ups about 5, 14 and 30 days later. After the third, stop sending the same email and pick up the phone. Pause the moment the client disputes the invoice or gives you a date.
Reminder date calculator
Uses the defaults in the table under “change the schedule”. Nothing you enter leaves this page.
What the main guides say, and where they disagree
We read the advice from Stripe, Bill.com, Square, FreshBooks and Bonsai on 4 November 2026. Before the due date they range from 3 to 7 days to the week before; all say to send one on the day; after it, Stripe gives 1 to 7 days, 7 to 14, then 30 or more, and Bill.com one week, two weeks and a month. Several contradict themselves: Square's text says weekly while its FAQ says 3 to 5 days, and Bonsai's table and text disagree. All five sell invoicing software and none tests which timing collects fastest, so the numbers are convention. Ours sit in the middle.
The schedule, stage by stage
Count from the due date on the invoice, not the day you sent it. An invoice issued March 3 on net 30 is due April 2, and that is day zero. If the due date was never clear, the invoice due date calculator settles it, and the days past due calculator tells you which stage you are in today.
Worked example: invoice issued March 3, 2026 on net 30, so due April 2.
Stage
When (net 30)
What it is for
Tone
How
1Heads-up
3 to 5 days beforeMar 30
Reach whoever releases payment while a missing PO can still be fixed.
Friendly, three lines
Email with the pay link
2Due date
On the dayApr 2
Put the pay link in front of them again. Nothing is late yet.
Neutral, one or two lines
Email
3First overdue
3 to 7 days afterApr 7 (day 5)
Ask what is blocking it. Assume a snag, not a refusal.
Matter of fact, a question
Email, same thread
4Second overdue
About 14 days afterApr 16
State the amount and the days late, and ask for a payment date.
Firm and specific
Email plus a phone call
5Final reminder
About 30 days afterMay 2 (a Saturday, so send Monday May 4)
Say what you will do next and when, and leave room for a dispute.
Plain and formal
Email, second contact copied
Three habits matter more than the exact days. Make the first overdue message a question, since the client may be waiting on a PO number you can supply in a minute. Make each message more specific than the last. And never skip a stage to sound tougher: a final reminder at day 8 reads as hostile to someone who never had a first.
Change the schedule to fit the situation
One calendar does not suit every invoice. Use the row that matches yours; the calculator above uses the same days.
Our recommended defaults, a judgment call built on the published ranges, not a sourced standard. Days count from the due date.
Situation
First message
Then
Why
Due on receipt or net 7
Skip the heads-up
Due date, then days 2, 7 and 21
No gap to fill before the date.
Net 15
2 days before
Due date, then days 4, 10 and 20
Shorter gaps for a short window.
Net 30
3 to 5 days before
Due date, then days 5, 14 and 30
The default in the table above.
Net 45
5 days before
Due date, then days 5, 14 and 30
As net 30, with a slightly earlier heads-up.
Net 60 or 90
7 days before
Due date, then days 7, 21 and 45
Easy to forget, so remind earlier and space the rest out.
Deposit before work
2 to 3 days before the start date
Day 2 after sending, then hold the booking
Tie it to the start date, not the invoice date.
Recurring or retainer
None after the first invoice
Day 3, then day 10
Nudge only when a month slips.
Large client with accounts payable
5 to 7 days before, sent to AP
Ask for the payment run date
Payments go out on a cycle; a message after the cut-off waits for the next run.
Disputed invoice
Not applicable
Pause the schedule
A reminder on a contested invoice reads as ignoring them.
The terms on the invoice set day zero, which is why the payment terms guide matters, and the deposit invoices guide covers the upfront case. In the UK the law fills a gap: for sales between businesses, gov.uk says an agreed payment date must usually be within 60 days, and if none is agreed, payment is late 30 days after the invoice arrives or the work is done, whichever is later.
Reminding a business versus a person
With a company you are writing to a process: send to the accounts address, copy the person who hired you, quote their PO number, and ask about the payment run. With a person, write to them alone, keep it short, and make it easy to say what is wrong.
The law draws the same line. The FTC says the federal Fair Debt Collection Practices Act covers household debts and that business debts are not covered. Regulation F leaves out a creditor's own staff collecting in its own name, so your own reminders usually fall outside it. State law can reach further. California's Rosenthal Act defines a debt collector as anyone who regularly collects debts “on behalf of that person or others”, and applies to debts a person owes for personal, family or household purposes. Unlike the federal law, it reaches a creditor collecting its own debts; the Privacy Rights Clearinghouse says plainly that “the Rosenthal Act covers original creditors collecting their own debts.” The debt still has to come from a consumer credit transaction, which the act defines as one in which a person acquires property, services or money on credit for personal, family or household purposes, so whether an unpaid bill for finished work counts depends on how the job was sold and billed. A California business chasing its own homeowner clients should assume the act may apply and ask a California lawyer about its own case; this guide is not legal advice. A 2024 amendment, SB 1286 (Chapter 522), extended the act from July 1, 2025 to some commercial debts owed by individuals, but only debts owed to lenders, commercial financing providers and debt buyers. Section 1788.11 bars obscene language, making a phone ring repeatedly to annoy, and contact so frequent it amounts to harassment. Check your own state's rules.
The federal collector rules still make a sensible ceiling with individuals: the FTC says collectors may not call before 8 a.m. or after 9 p.m. without agreement, and Regulation F presumes too many calls past seven in seven days about one debt. In the UK, the statutory interest of 8% plus the Bank of England base rate and the fixed sums of £40, £70 or £100 by debt size apply to late payments between businesses, not to consumers, according to gov.uk.
Eight messages you can adapt
Made-up names and amounts, written the way you write to a client you want to keep. Each asks for one thing.
Heads-up3 days before, net 30, company client
SubjectInvoice 1042 from Hartwell Landscaping, due April 2
Hi Priya,
A quick note ahead of the date: invoice 1042 for $3,850 is due on April 2. The link below lets you pay by card or bank transfer. If your accounts team needs a PO number on it, tell me and I will reissue it today.
Thanks, Dan
Send it to whoever pays invoices, with the person who hired you copied.
Due dateDay 0, any client
SubjectInvoice 1042 from Hartwell Landscaping, due today
Hi Priya,
Invoice 1042 for $3,850 is due today. The pay link is below. If it is already in this week's payment run, ignore this and thank you.
Dan
First overdue5 days after
SubjectInvoice 1042 from Hartwell Landscaping, past due
Hi Priya,
Invoice 1042 was due on April 2 and I have not seen the payment yet. Could you check where it sits? If something is holding it up, such as a PO number or an approval, tell me and I will fix it this week.
If it has already gone out, thank you, and please disregard this.
Dan
Reply in the same thread so the original invoice stays visible.
Second overdue14 days after
SubjectInvoice 1042 from Hartwell Landscaping, 14 days past due
Hi Priya,
Invoice 1042 for $3,850 is now 14 days past due and I cannot tell from here what is in the way. Can you give me a date it will be paid? A short call would also do. I am free Thursday morning.
Dan
Final reminder30 days after
SubjectFinal reminder: invoice 1042, 30 days past due
Hi Priya,
Invoice 1042 for $3,850 is 30 days past due, and my last two messages have had no reply. If I do not hear from you by May 9, I will pause next month's visits and send a written demand for payment.
If there is a problem with the work or the invoice, tell me what it is and we will sort it out.
Dan
Promise only steps you will really take, and give a date the client can act on.
After a part paymentWhen less than the total arrives
Thank you for the $2,000 that arrived on April 9. That leaves $1,850 on invoice 1042, which was due April 2. Could you tell me when the rest is scheduled? The pay link below shows the remaining amount.
Dan
Thank them first, then state the balance as a number, not a percentage.
Individual client2 days after, small job
ChannelText message
Hi Ana, it's Dan from Hartwell. Invoice 1043 for $480, the spring cleanup, was due Friday. You can pay here: [link]. If it's already sent, thanks!
One text, to the client only, in daytime hours. Then follow with an email.
DepositBefore the job starts
SubjectDeposit invoice 2207 from Hartwell Landscaping, due Friday
Hi Marcus,
The deposit invoice for $1,200 is due Friday, and the crew is booked for Monday on the understanding that it is paid. The pay link is below. If your dates have changed, say so and I will move the booking, not the price.
Dan
Write only consequences you will carry out. Mention a late fee only if your agreement has one, worded as the late fee generator does. The late fee laws guide shows what states allow.
When to pause the schedule
The client disputes the invoice or the work. Stop, answer the dispute, and use the disputed invoices guide. Restart only once you agree what is owed.
They give you a payment date. Pause until the day after it. If the date passes, your next message quotes their promise.
You agree a payment plan. Replace the schedule with one reminder before each installment.
They say it is already paid. Pause until you have checked the bank.
The invoice was wrong. Reissue it, agree the due date in writing, and count from there.
A person asks you to stop calling. Switch to writing.
Keep a log
A reminder you cannot prove you sent is worth little later. Keep one line per contact: date, stage, how and to whom, and what came back. A spreadsheet is plenty. If the debt reaches a demand letter or small claims, the log is your timeline.
An example reminder log for invoice 1042, with made-up names.
Date
Stage
How and to whom
Result
Mar 30
Heads-up
Email to accounts, Priya copied
No reply
Apr 7
First overdue
Email, same thread
Priya: PO number missing. Reissued with PO 7731 the same day
Apr 16
Second overdue
Email and a call to Priya
Promised payment in the April 24 run. Paused until April 25
Apr 24
Paid
Bank transfer, reference 1042
Schedule stopped
The escalation ladder
Stop reminding when a fourth email would copy the third. First confirm the invoice reached the right address and nobody raised a problem you missed. Then climb in order:
Written reminders on the schedule above, to about day 14.
A phone call alongside the day 14 email, asking for a date.
A final reminder around day 30 that names your next step and a date.
Pause work not yet started for that client.
A written demand stating the amount, the original terms and a deadline, by a method you can prove.
Outside help: a lawyer's letter, a collection agency or small claims court, depending on the amount and whether the client is a business or a person.
Write it off if recovery would cost more than the debt; ask your accountant how to record a bad debt.
When you send an invoice as a tracked link, reminders go out from InvoiceTools on your behalf, under your business name, with replies coming to your own email. The standard wording has three stages: a payment reminder, a past due notice and a final reminder. Subjects carry the invoice number, your business name and the due date or days overdue, never the amount. After a part payment the email shows what is still owed, and a late fee you have set up is announced before it applies.
Pro and Business plans set their own timing and wording: up to three reminders from the due date to 365 days after, plus an optional heads-up 1 to 14 days before. Sending by hand is limited to three per invoice and 20 a day. You can pause reminders for one invoice or one client, which is how to handle a dispute. See invoice tracking for what an opened link shows, the guide to sending the invoice for the first message, and add a payment link to remove the last excuse.
Our late payment cost calculator adds the cost of being short the cash to the value of your chasing time. A $10,000 invoice 30 days late at a 20% annual rate, with 45 minutes of chasing at $40 an hour, costs $164.38 plus $30.00, or $194.38. A $400 invoice costs $6.58 plus $20.00 for half an hour, $26.58, nearly all your time. Automate the small one; call about the large one.
Should I send a reminder before the invoice is due?
On net 30 or longer, yes, once, 3 to 5 days ahead. It reaches whoever releases payments while a missing PO number or a wrong address can still be fixed. On due on receipt or net 7 there is no gap to fill, so skip it.
Is it rude to send a payment reminder?
No. You agreed a date. What reads as rude is tone: a first overdue note that accuses, or a final reminder with no earlier ones.
Can I mention a late fee in a reminder?
Only one agreed in writing before the work. Name the amount and the last day to pay without it, and check the late fee laws guide, because limits differ by state.
Do debt collection laws apply to my own reminders?
Usually not the federal one: the FTC says business debts are outside the FDCPA, and the CFPB's rule leaves out a creditor's own staff collecting in its own name. State laws can reach further. California's Rosenthal Act is wider: its definition of a debt collector includes anyone who regularly collects on their own behalf, and consumer groups such as the Privacy Rights Clearinghouse say it covers original creditors. It applies to consumer debts that arise from credit given for personal, family or household purposes, so a California business billing homeowners should assume it may apply and ask a California lawyer. This is not legal advice.
What if the client says they already paid?
Ask for the date and method, pause the schedule, and check your bank before you reply. Every message here allows for it with a line such as 'if it has already gone out, thank you'.
What this is. A guide written by InvoiceTools. It is general information, not legal advice. Published figures come from the sources named, read on 4 November 2026, and the schedules are our own recommendations, not a sourced standard.
Last reviewed by InvoiceTools, Houston, Texas, on 4 November 2026.
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